Joy is a meanie?

I love Joy. Don't get me wrong. However, she has a mouth like no other. Sticks and stones may break my bones...my butt! Just about a minute or so ago we were talking about stupid decisions we've made in life. Joy actually said, "Well, my biggest mistake was moving in with you!" She seriously did say that but I know deep down she was joking because there are moments when I know she has a heart. For example, she called me her special friend. I love joy.